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İçerik Mary La tarafından sağlanmıştır. Bölümler, grafikler ve podcast açıklamaları dahil tüm podcast içeriği doğrudan Mary La veya podcast platform ortağı tarafından yüklenir ve sağlanır. Birinin telif hakkıyla korunan çalışmanızı izniniz olmadan kullandığını düşünüyorsanız burada https://tr.player.fm/legal özetlenen süreci takip edebilirsiniz.

Being bullied has debilitating effects on the self-esteem of impressionable minds during developmental years. In this episode, follow Mary to two different high-schools and learn about how being bullied turned into a disastrous mindset that induced a deep sense of shame that fueled an anxiety and panic disorder that would nearly flatten her.
When Mary uncovered how being bullied played a part in her emotional health as an adult, she was able to dig to the roots of her irrational fears and heal them. Writing the stories she read in today's episode was part of that process.

To learn more about The Great Unlearning, please visit http://www.Mary-La.com and sign up for Mary's quarterly newsletter with inspiring new content, information on upcoming events, and future projects. There is a gift in it for you!
Mary would love to hear from you, please email your questions or comments at Mary@Mary-La.com.
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Being bullied has debilitating effects on the self-esteem of impressionable minds during developmental years. In this episode, follow Mary to two different high-schools and learn about how being bullied turned into a disastrous mindset that induced a deep sense of shame that fueled an anxiety and panic disorder that would nearly flatten her.
When Mary uncovered how being bullied played a part in her emotional health as an adult, she was able to dig to the roots of her irrational fears and heal them. Writing the stories she read in today's episode was part of that process.

To learn more about The Great Unlearning, please visit http://www.Mary-La.com and sign up for Mary's quarterly newsletter with inspiring new content, information on upcoming events, and future projects. There is a gift in it for you!
Mary would love to hear from you, please email your questions or comments at Mary@Mary-La.com.
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If you found this episode meaningful, please follow and leave a review.

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