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[EMPOWERMENT SERIES] EP#4 - AN ALTERNATIVE PERSPECTIVE ON IMPOSTER COMPLEX
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You land your perfect job. And then your inner voice tells you that you are horribly unqualified and everyone is going to find you out.
You enter a super healthy relationship with an awesome partner. And then your inner voice tells you how damaged you are, why you aren’t good enough, and why it’s all going to come crashing down in a blazing inferno.
You finally finish that graduate degree. And then your inner voice tells you how you were the slowest in the class, probably won’t get hired, and should probably just try to get your old job back.
Sound familiar? If so, you are likely battling a lovely little issue we (in the personal growth world) like to call The Imposter Complex. The idea that, in spite of your success or accomplishment, you are somehow not good enough, a total fraud, and have fooled everyone who will surely soon find you out.
In this week’s episode, I answer a listener’s burning Q about what to do when you find yourself beating yourself up about being an imposter in your career, relationship, as a parent, or whatever. You’ll learn what to do with those pesky thoughts, how to acknowledge yourself (without being a cocky asshole), and how to own your god-damned brilliance (even if that terrifies you).
This pod explores:
- How to reframe the lies you’ve bought into telling you that you’re a fraud
- How to zero in on what you’re really afraid of so you can get a handle on your triggers and create a much more empowering inner convo
- Two of my favorite assignments to snap you outta this imposter trap (bring your pen and paper, Babycakes! We got work to do!)
- The one tool you need to employ TODAY to change how you view yourself so you know, you can actually be fucking happy
This episode is part of a limited, 6-part podcast series teaching you all the tools and strategies you need to kick your confidence and self-worth into high gear. I’ve also created detailed (and #gorge) worksheets to accompany each episode in the series to aid you in cementing all your ah-ha moments and anchor in lasting change.
Recent scientific studies have shown that taking pen to paper helps the brain retain information substantially more than listening alone. Get ready to set powerful boundaries (without guilt), contend with fear and worry like a boss, kick imposter complex to the curb, and finally believe you are ‘enough’ already. So clickety-click RIGHT HERE and grab your free worksheets!
APPLICATIONS FOR WORTHY. NOW OPEN! IT’S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL.It’s time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It’s time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It’s time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That’s what I thought.
Let’s kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors just opened for an exclusive, small group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO all-inclusive, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello!
Want in? Of course, you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to read all about it and submit your application!
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:- CHECK OUT WORTHY.
- FREE WORKSHEETS WITH THIS POD SERIES
- [COACHING SESSION] EP#384 – Working with Rachel on Imposter Complex
- [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#385 – Tanya Geisler on Imposter Complex
- [TOOL] EP#387 – Hypnosis Session to Heal the Imposter Complex
- [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – The Difference Between Feeling ‘Not Enough’ + Believing You’re ‘Not Enough’ and what to do about it
- From Imposter to Trailblazer. (And why that matters) Article by Tanya Giesler
- Imposter Syndrome Article from Psychology Today
- Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE
- Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account
- Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title
- Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button
- You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes
Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!
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Manage episode 438907182 series 1435644
You land your perfect job. And then your inner voice tells you that you are horribly unqualified and everyone is going to find you out.
You enter a super healthy relationship with an awesome partner. And then your inner voice tells you how damaged you are, why you aren’t good enough, and why it’s all going to come crashing down in a blazing inferno.
You finally finish that graduate degree. And then your inner voice tells you how you were the slowest in the class, probably won’t get hired, and should probably just try to get your old job back.
Sound familiar? If so, you are likely battling a lovely little issue we (in the personal growth world) like to call The Imposter Complex. The idea that, in spite of your success or accomplishment, you are somehow not good enough, a total fraud, and have fooled everyone who will surely soon find you out.
In this week’s episode, I answer a listener’s burning Q about what to do when you find yourself beating yourself up about being an imposter in your career, relationship, as a parent, or whatever. You’ll learn what to do with those pesky thoughts, how to acknowledge yourself (without being a cocky asshole), and how to own your god-damned brilliance (even if that terrifies you).
This pod explores:
- How to reframe the lies you’ve bought into telling you that you’re a fraud
- How to zero in on what you’re really afraid of so you can get a handle on your triggers and create a much more empowering inner convo
- Two of my favorite assignments to snap you outta this imposter trap (bring your pen and paper, Babycakes! We got work to do!)
- The one tool you need to employ TODAY to change how you view yourself so you know, you can actually be fucking happy
This episode is part of a limited, 6-part podcast series teaching you all the tools and strategies you need to kick your confidence and self-worth into high gear. I’ve also created detailed (and #gorge) worksheets to accompany each episode in the series to aid you in cementing all your ah-ha moments and anchor in lasting change.
Recent scientific studies have shown that taking pen to paper helps the brain retain information substantially more than listening alone. Get ready to set powerful boundaries (without guilt), contend with fear and worry like a boss, kick imposter complex to the curb, and finally believe you are ‘enough’ already. So clickety-click RIGHT HERE and grab your free worksheets!
APPLICATIONS FOR WORTHY. NOW OPEN! IT’S TIME TO BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY, ONCE AND FOR ALL.It’s time to stop talking constant shit to yourself. It’s time to stop caring so much about what everyone else thinks of you. It’s time to let go of that death grip on perfectionism, self-doubt, and people-pleasing. After all, how has that been working? That’s what I thought.
Let’s kick that shit to the curb, shall we? The doors just opened for an exclusive, small group-coaching immersion that will teach you the skills to access some serious “enoughness,” start believing in yourself, and speak up for yourself like a bold, boundaried badass. Oh, and this 9-month, deep-dive includes TWO all-inclusive, 5-day, luxury retreats! Hello!
Want in? Of course, you do. Clickety click RIGHT HERE or click the fancy image to read all about it and submit your application!
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:- CHECK OUT WORTHY.
- FREE WORKSHEETS WITH THIS POD SERIES
- [COACHING SESSION] EP#384 – Working with Rachel on Imposter Complex
- [DIAL AN EXPERT] EP#385 – Tanya Geisler on Imposter Complex
- [TOOL] EP#387 – Hypnosis Session to Heal the Imposter Complex
- [AMY SAYS] EP#488 – The Difference Between Feeling ‘Not Enough’ + Believing You’re ‘Not Enough’ and what to do about it
- From Imposter to Trailblazer. (And why that matters) Article by Tanya Giesler
- Imposter Syndrome Article from Psychology Today
- Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE
- Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account
- Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title
- Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button
- You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes
Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!
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