Carling Mashinter on Toxic Masculinity and Sex Positive Therapy

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Carling is a sex positive therapist specializing in sex and relationship therapy for polyamorous, LGBTQ+, and people living with STIs.

Having worked at an HIV support center and transgender clinic, Carling wants to provide therapy centered around sex and relationships for LGBTQ+ and polyamorous folx. We discuss her work and dive deeply into issues around sex addiction, INCELS, and misogyny, also looking at how toxic masculinity prevents men from seeking therapy

Shout outs in this episode:

Kat Kova (IG: @katkovatherapy)

Find Carling Mashinter on:

IG: @inclusivewithcarling

Web: inclusivewithcarling.com

Support Intellectual Erection at:
patreon.com/intellectualerection

Find Intellectual Erection on:

IG: @intellectual.erection

Twitter: @buttplugpodcast

FB: @intellectualerecti0n

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Carling Mashinter on Toxic Masculinity and Sex Positive Therapy

Intellectual Erection

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published 4 yıl önce

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MP3•Bölüm sayfası

Carling is a sex positive therapist specializing in sex and relationship therapy for polyamorous, LGBTQ+, and people living with STIs.

Shout outs in this episode:

Kat Kova (IG: @katkovatherapy)

Find Carling Mashinter on:

IG: @inclusivewithcarling

Web: inclusivewithcarling.com

Support Intellectual Erection at:
patreon.com/intellectualerection

Find Intellectual Erection on:

IG: @intellectual.erection

Twitter: @buttplugpodcast

FB: @intellectualerecti0n

118 bölüm

#Sexuality #Sex Positivity #Intellectual Erection #Health and Well-Being #Fitness

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