Dr. Anna Machin. The evolutionary lens of Love and Fatherhood

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Dr. Anna Machin is a doctor of evolutionary anthropology, a writer and broadcaster. She is world renowned for her work in the science and anthropology of close human relationships. Anna Machin delves into the intricate nature of love, discussing its biological and cultural dimensions. She emphasizes the complexity of love beyond romantic relationships, exploring various forms of love, including spiritual and inter-species love. The discussion transitions into the topic of monogamy, where Machin highlights the evolutionary aspects and societal pressures surrounding it. The conversation also addresses the darker sides of love, including manipulation and cultural narratives that can lead to unhealthy relationships. Finally, they touch on modern dating dynamics, particularly the challenges posed by online dating and societal expectations. In this conversation, Anna Machin discusses the significant hormonal changes that occur in fathers upon becoming parents, including a drop in testosterone and an increase in bonding hormones. She emphasizes that these changes are crucial for developing a strong bond with their children. The discussion also covers the cultural influences on fatherhood, the unique experiences of adoptive and single parents, and the evolving role of fathers in modern society. Machin highlights the importance of love and connection in parenting, regardless of biological ties.

Anna is a pioneer of fatherhood science and is unique in her approach to the study of human love combining studies, techniques, and explanations from both the biological and social sciences. She spent over 12 years at the University of Oxford within the Social and Evolutionary Neuroscience Research Group (SENRG), led by Professor Robin Dunbar, focusing in particular on fatherhood and the genetics and neurobiology of love. She is fascinated by the full spectrum of human love and has carried out studies exploring romantic, friendship, parental, religious, and parasocial love. She is currently working with a team to explore the impact of AI on the future of love.

Anna is passionate about public engagement in science. She has written two popular science books – Life of Dad (2018) and Why We Love (2022) – and has worked with broadcasters in the UK and abroad including the BBC, ABC in Australia, NPR and Hulu in the USA, Arte in France and ZDF in Germany. She has written for the New York Times, The Guardian, The Observer, The i and New Scientist magazine, among others. She is the presenter of the How We Are Wired podcast which is funded by The Bertarelli Foundation.

Chapters

00:00 Exploring the Complexity of Love

12:04 Monogamy: Myths and Realities

24:02 The Dark Side of Love and Cultural Pressures

27:43 The Hormonal Shift of Fatherhood

33:43 The Life of Dad: Insights and Discoveries

40:42 Cultural Influences on Fatherhood

52:17 The Future of Fatherhood Research

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