83. Why You Shouldn’t Love Your Partner Exactly The Way They Are

The Art of We

Dr. Will and Krista Van Derveer discuss why loving a partner exactly the way they are may not be compatible with growth and support in a relationship. They argue that unconditional love can become a cop-out for not truly supporting one another to step into their greatest potential, and that growth as a couple requires the willingness to acknowledge and address blind spots together.

Listen in to hear about:

• The importance of challenging each other to grow and expand
• Where couples get stuck in their partnership
• Creating the context in relationship to support each other to see blind spots
• Examples of how to approach one another with a challenge
• Communication skills for healthy relationships
• Taking on the role of holding our partners to live into their greatest expression

Resources Mentioned:

• Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements
• Bessel Van Der Kolk
• Episode on Navigating Introvert-Extrovert Partnership

Get in Touch:

• The Art Of We Website
• 3 Game Changing Conversations Every Couple Must Have
• The Art of We Instagram
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training

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