Change Your Questions, Change Your Future | RR278

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Ever wonder how a psychotherapist becomes a stand-up comic?

In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of Elliot Connie, a psychotherapist, author, podcaster, and founder of Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Elliot shares his journey from a tough childhood and a stint in marine biology to discovering his passion for helping others through psychology. He talks about how SFBT flips traditional therapy on its head by focusing on hope and asking the right questions to inspire change, rather than just digging into problems.

Elliot opens up about facing pushback from traditional therapists but stuck with his approach because it works. He explains why hope isn’t just a wish—it’s the fuel that drives action and transformation. We also hear about a defining moment in his life when he realized his resilience was his superpower, inspiring him to help others discover their own strengths.

He gives us a glimpse into his upcoming book, "Change Your Questions, Change Your Future," which teaches readers how to use powerful questions to reshape their lives. And if that’s not enough, Elliot is also gearing up for his new TV show, set to begin filming in 2025. Plus, we learn about his unexpected journey into stand-up comedy, thanks to a nudge from Tiffany Haddish, proving that you never know where your talents might take you.

Join us for an inspiring conversation that’s all about embracing hope, finding your strengths, and daring to be different!

Discover:

• Elliot’s journey from a tough upbringing and marine biology to psychology shows how embracing change can lead to unexpected paths.

• How Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) challenges traditional therapy by focusing on hope and asking the right questions to drive positive change.

• That hope isn’t just wishful thinking; it’s a crucial element that motivates us to take action and overcome challenges.

• How everyone has a unique superpower; finding it means looking past comparisons and embracing your own strengths.

• Elliot’s new book, “Change Your Questions, Change Your Future,” teaches how asking the right questions can transform your life.

• Why stepping out of your comfort zone, like Elliot’s venture into stand-up comedy with Tiffany Haddish’s encouragement, can reveal hidden talents and open new doors.

Connect with Elliot:

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Website: https://elliottconnie.com/

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elliott-connie-852b787/

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