How to date safely in a misogynistic world 💕
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💕 Awareness of how the Current Political Climate Affect us: We live in a world that often feels unsafe for women, with misogynistic leaders and systems in place. But don’t let fear stop you from living your life and dating. You can still show up confidently and attract the love you deserve, even in a world that can sometimes feel hostile.
💕 Dating Like a Goddess in a Misogynistic World: Dating in today’s world requires awareness and caution, but it’s still possible to date confidently. The key is to take precautions, set boundaries, and never settle for anything less than respect and love.
💕 Mindset and Values: You need to understand your own values and self-worth. Know what you want in a partner and believe you deserve it. When you know your worth, you will attract a partner who respects and aligns with your values.
💕 Healing and Self-Awareness: Before you can attract the right partner, you need to heal and become aware of past patterns. When I was stuck in a cycle of attracting toxic relationships, it was because I wasn’t honouring my worth. Healing and self-awareness allowed me to stop attracting the wrong partners and make healthier choices.
💕 Setting Boundaries: Clear boundaries are essential when dating. It’s crucial to be able to say "no" when necessary and not let anyone overstep. The right partner will respect your boundaries, and those who don’t aren’t worth your time.
💕 Trust Your Intuition: Trust your intuition above all else. Sometimes, fear can cloud your judgment, but your intuition is a subtle, clear guide that helps you make wise decisions. If something feels off, listen to that inner voice.
💕 Staying in Control of Safety: Take control of your safety when dating. Meet in public places, don’t let them pick you up or walk you home, and use anonymous communication tools like Google Voice to protect your privacy. Your safety is your responsibility, and it’s okay to be cautious.
💕 Observe Actions, Not Words: Words are easy, but actions speak louder. A man who is truly interested will back up his words with consistent actions. Pay attention to what he does, not just what he says.
💕 Self-Respect and Financial Independence: Never rely entirely on a man for financial security. Financial independence is key to maintaining self-respect and avoiding manipulation. Be sure to stand firm in your own independence, whether financially or emotionally.
💕 Have an Exit Plan: Always have an exit strategy when dating, especially in the early stages. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, it’s important to know how to leave the situation gracefully. Trust your instincts and make sure you always have a plan to get out if needed.
💕 Building Confidence and Avoiding Manipulation: Confidence is your best defence against manipulation. By standing firm in your worth and leading with self-respect, you’ll naturally attract people who value you for who you are, not who they want you to be.
💕 The Importance of Self-Discovery: The more you get to know yourself and truly love who you are, the more you’ll be able to attract the partner you deserve. Believe that you are a goddess, and you’ll start attracting a partner who treats you like one.
🩷 Highlights:- Quote: "You need to know who you are at your core, and that's the foundation for attracting the right partner."
- Key Advice: "If he tells you all the right things but doesn’t show consistent actions, he’s not your unicorn."
- Practical Tip: Always have an exit plan and trust your intuition when meeting new people.
- Confidence Boost: You are a unicorn and deserve to be treated like one. Only allow yourself a partner who treats you like a queen. No settling.
This episode is all about empowering you to navigate the dating world safely, confidently, and on your own terms. By setting boundaries, trusting your intuition, and embracing your self-worth, you can date like a goddess in any environment.
🩷 Useful links:
🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)
🩷 Join my free Facebook group, 👑 Manifest Your King: Learn to date like a Queen
🩷 Book a consult
🩷 Work with me
🩷 Check out my courses
🩷 Heal your attachment style
🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating
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