372: Chatting about the Journey to Adoption with Lane Igoudin

Chats from the Blog Cabin

Lane Igoudin discusses foster care adoption and adoption within the LGBTQ+ communities. Lane shares the story behind their book, 'A Family Maybe,' which details their experience adopting two children from the Los Angeles County foster care system. They explain their decision to choose foster care adoption and the different routes available to them. Lane also highlights the extensive certification process and requirements for foster parents. They discuss the emotional toll of the adoption process and the challenges of balancing work and parenting. Lane reads an excerpt from their book and emphasizes the importance of sharing adoption stories. They also address the exclusion of foster parents from court proceedings and the contradictions within the foster adoption process. Lane Good shares his experience of adopting children from the foster care system as a gay couple. He discusses the challenges they faced, including the role of personnel in the adoption process and the impact of personnel changes. Lane also highlights the importance of support groups and the need for a functioning adult to provide a stable home for children in foster care. He encourages listeners to consider adopting children from foster care and emphasizes the best interest of the child.

Takeaways

• Foster care adoption provides an opportunity to give a home to children in need within the LGBTQ+ communities.
• The foster care adoption process involves extensive certification, screening, and parenting education courses for prospective foster parents.
• The emotional toll of the adoption process can be significant, and it is important to have support and resources.
• Sharing adoption stories helps raise awareness about the challenges and experiences of foster care adoption. Adopting children from the foster care system can be a daunting process, but it is important to remember that not every story is the same.
• Personnel changes in the adoption process can have a significant impact on the outcome, with some personnel being more supportive than others.
• The role of birth parents in the adoption process can be complex, and it is important to consider the best interest of the child.
• Support groups and a strong support network are crucial for adoptive parents, especially in navigating the challenges of the adoption process.
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Helpful Links

• Web: www.laneigoudin.com
• Facebook: lane.igoudin
• Instagram: @laneigoudin
• Grab A Family Maybe https://amzn.to/3wDNv6r
• Email l[email protected]