The Right Match: The Qualities to Seek In Christian Dating
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Welcome to the Charlie Mitchell Teachings Podcast. In this insightful sermon titled "Cuffed to Quality," Charlie dives into the complexities of modern relationships, drawing wisdom from the timeless truths of Scripture.
Episode Highlights:
1. The Modern Dating Scene:
- Charlie begins by contrasting the old days of Black Planet with today's digital dating landscape, highlighting the drastic shift to apps like Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid.
- He shares startling facts about online dating, shedding light on the often-deceptive nature of these platforms.
2. Dating Through the Ages:
- A journey from arranged marriages to courtship and to modern dating, examining how romance replaced character assessment, leading to the current hookup culture.
3. The Vanity Fair Perspective:
- Discussing the seismic shifts in heterosexual mating brought about by the internet and dating apps.
4. The Disturbing Reality:
- Charlie shares alarming insights into the current dating ethos, emphasizing modern relationships' superficial and transactional nature.
5. Cuffed to Quality: Four Qualities to Develop and Look For:
Godly Character: Inspired by Songs 1:2-3, Charlie stresses the importance of character over appearance in relationships.
Growing Trust: Drawing from Songs 1:5-6, he discusses the importance of building trust by addressing insecurities.
Higher Standards: Referencing Songs 1:7, Charlie encourages listeners to maintain standards that honor God.
Consistent Encouragement: From Songs 1:9, 15-16, the focus is on the power of positive affirmation in relationships.
6. The Result - Feeling Special and Secure:
- Charlie concludes with reflections from Songs 2:1-3, highlighting how healthy relationships lead to feeling cherished and protected.
Relevant Scripture:
- Romans 12:9-10: "Let love be without hypocrisy. Detest evil; cling to what is good. Love one another deeply as brothers and sisters. Outdo one another in showing honor."
- This scripture forms the bedrock of today's discussion, emphasizing the importance of genuine, God-centered love in relationships.
Conclusion:
Charlie wraps up the episode by challenging listeners to reevaluate their approach to dating and relationships, urging them to seek qualities that align with godly principles.
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