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You Don’t See It Until You See It
Manage episode 348160103 series 3278947
You don’t see it until you see it. You can’t unsee once you see it.
One day, all of a sudden, I just saw it. My thoughts were, "hey this is a problem."
"Something just isn’t right here."
Before this, I made excuses. I justified everything.
He’s not feeling well today.
He had a rough childhood.
He is stressed at work.
He didn’t have siblings.
The kids were being loud and frustrating.
Our son could have been more obedient.
I could have been more understanding.
I could have said that better.
I should have known that would upset him.
Anything and everything except for - he should not talk to us this way. His words are mean and hurtful. His tone is not okay as my partner for life. He is NOT a loving and compassionate person.
Why were those not the things I was thinking and saying? I misdirected the fault for what was going on for years, many years. Laying the blame everywhere except where it truly belonged. Until one day….
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Manage episode 348160103 series 3278947
You don’t see it until you see it. You can’t unsee once you see it.
One day, all of a sudden, I just saw it. My thoughts were, "hey this is a problem."
"Something just isn’t right here."
Before this, I made excuses. I justified everything.
He’s not feeling well today.
He had a rough childhood.
He is stressed at work.
He didn’t have siblings.
The kids were being loud and frustrating.
Our son could have been more obedient.
I could have been more understanding.
I could have said that better.
I should have known that would upset him.
Anything and everything except for - he should not talk to us this way. His words are mean and hurtful. His tone is not okay as my partner for life. He is NOT a loving and compassionate person.
Why were those not the things I was thinking and saying? I misdirected the fault for what was going on for years, many years. Laying the blame everywhere except where it truly belonged. Until one day….
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