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Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else. But I'm here to tell you... It's ok to be weird. In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, you…
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I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started. Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most…
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Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts …
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What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it. The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel…
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Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differ…
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Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able to find reserves of strength, resilience, and hope they didn’t even know they had. Plus, you can see the dedication of my team, the absolute blast we have, and the deep work and lightbulb moments that h…
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I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relat…
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Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible. So how can we truly hea…
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Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen tal…
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Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.” It sounds good. But is it true? In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for …
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There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. When people typically think of things that matter in a relationship, they often list traits or things they like in an ideal partner: sexual chemistry, a sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness. But there are also essential qualities that pertain to how we actually relate to the pe…
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When you get excited about someone, it's easy to get caught in the trap of obsessive thinking. You try to move too quickly. You check your phone constantly waiting for their texts. You worry they might lose their attention at any moment. When this happens, you can easily end up self-sabotaging, lowering your value, and pushing someone away. So if y…
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"I should be over them by now...but what if they were 'The One'?" "Will I ever love someone that way again?" It's normal to go through feelings of panic and regret when someone breaks up with us whom we love and admire. Or when we look back on the good qualities they have and worry if they were the ONLY person who can make us happy. But this kind o…
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Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. What's holding them back? FEAR. They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is …
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In today’s new episode, I talk with author and radio host Tanya Rad, who shares what she did to get what she wanted in dating and how she found her current boyfriend in the process. Her honesty is refreshing, and whether you’re in a relationship or not, I think you’ll learn something new about setting standards (and going easy on yourself when thin…
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Do you find yourself always measuring your life against other people you know? Or are you worried about whether you have achieved enough, made enough money, or got the right partner by a certain age? If so, you know what it's like to be stuck in the "comparison trap". While it can be useful to have goals to keep us motivated, we have to remember we…
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When someone we hoped we would be with forever breaks up with us, the pain of heartbreak that follows can be akin to torture. Most of us have been there before, and we all know it can take all the strength we possess to adapt to this new reality . . . but what about when, in addition to this pain, we have to watch as our ex moves on with someone el…
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What are some of the ways to know if you're in the right relationship? Are there ways you can stress test to see if it has long-term potential? In this clip, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson talk about 2 of the most important questions you can ask to better understand the health of your relationship and see if you and your partner have a positive…
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Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met. If you know your insecurity can lead your thoughts down irrational pathways, how can you figure out if something you’re stressing about is a real concern? For instance, if you had the most amazing date last weekend but they haven’t texted you for a few d…
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Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to? In this clip, Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson talk about what matters most when choosing a partner and the long-term qualities we often undervalue. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @st…
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The question Audrey and I answer in this week’s new episode is an important one, because it happens to people All. The. Time! We’re all familiar with obvious red flags, but some red flags feel so good, they’re easy to miss . . . you know, like when someone is saying the most romantic things, wanting to spend all of their time with us, and making pl…
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When you have to find love after heartbreak, it can shatter your world. You are in a world you never thought you would be in, and life can feel very different than you planned for it to be. In this clip, Matt and the team look at an important reframe to change your mindset and get excitement for finding love back when you feel like you've faced a s…
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Are you one of those people who “loves the chase” in dating? You meet someone, you find them attractive, maybe even go on a date, and you start to become MORE obsessed when they show you less attention, less affection, or when they play hot and cold. Or worse, when someone shows you kindness and loyalty, and treats you with the kind of affection yo…
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Find yourself stuck with endless texting on dating apps? How much contact should you make before an in-person date? It's always tricky knowing when to upgrade your conversation in modern dating. In this clip, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey look at how to go from texting to phone call, and elegant ways you can do it. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secr…
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How do you tell the difference between someone who is avoidant, and someone who just takes things slowly? Are you tired of someone who waste your time, only to say they don't want anything serious once you're already emotionally invested? In this brand new episode, you'll learn the 3 most important strategies to protect your heart and make sure you…
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