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Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patte ...
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The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

Melia Diana- Christian Counselor. Biblical Therapist. Relationship & Dating Coach for HSP’s. Best-Selling Author. Inner Healing Facilitator. Spiritual Warfare Specialist. Prophetic Ministry Founder & Mentor

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***Top 1.0% Global Podcast*** Desire to have a stronger Vertical Relationship with JESUS? Need GODLY relationship advice? Are their areas of your life that need authentic HEALING? Struggling with your highly sensitive gift in the prophetic? Or just fed-up of living in bondage of the enemy? I get it! I went from a hot mess to totally blessed. Truth… We all have hidden wounds that lie deep within our wounded soul. Soul wounds have to be purged, removed, and cleansed with GOD in order to get to ...
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you constantly battle with thoughts telling you you’re not good enough? Do you feel like fear is running your life? If you’re tired of those voices telling you, “I’m unloveable” or “I’ll never reach my dreams,” you’re not alone. Today, we're putting the inner negative voice in check so we stop drowing out our faith and letting f…
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As a Christian, it's important to remember that being kind, compassionate, and showing love; does not mean allowing others to walk all over you at their convenience! For that reason, your identity as a follower of Christ should not be based on always saying, "yes" to others. You're not a doormat! First and foremost, it is crucial to pray for discer…
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Hey beautiful! ♥️ In today’s episode, I’m giving you a front-row seat to a powerful coaching call with a client who bravely faced deep betrayal from her husband and the challenge of staying true to her faith through it all. She asked to remain anonymous but agreed to share her story so that you could benefit from her journey, her processing, and th…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you keep replaying those old memories, shaming yourself for mistakes you’ve made, or feeling like your past choices hold you back from the life you want? I know how easily self-condemnation can creep in, especially when you’re trying to make bold moves and step into the woman God is calling you to be. This episode is all about h…
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The "feeler anointing" is a rare gift from the Lord but can be used for Satan's kingdom. Yes, if you're a feeler, you're going to get labeled as a hypochondriac, overly emotional, oversensitive, crazy, and too sensitive! So, embrace it and know who you are in Christ. Many struggle with this highly sensitive gift and feel extremely overwhelmed. Feel…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I just can't trust men"? Maybe you’ve been deeply hurt, betrayed, or even reached a point where becoming a "man hater" felt like the only way to protect yourself. I totally get it—I’ve been there too. For years, I believed that all men were untrustworthy and told myself that I didn’t need the…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Feeling torn between giving your relationship another shot or walking away? I get it—it’s tough to know if those issues are fixable or if you’re dealing with serious red flags. Are you asking yourself, "Am I giving up too early?" or "Is this something I should be worried about?" Don’t worry, sis, I’ve got you covered! In this episo…
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Healing can look like it's from our Lord and Savior, but twisted with Satan's antics. Many Christians think they are following God and His ways, but actually following the devil's crooked pathways. Healing can come in many different versions and forms... we must trend with caution and have wise discernment of each path to know the main difference b…
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First off, we must first recognize, we are even building up the Kingdom of God or the kingdom of Satan. You’re running with the devil or running with God. Spirit of deception (antichrist) or spirit of truth (the Holy Spirit). In a world filled with spiritual beliefs and practices, it can be challenging to discern between what is true and what is de…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Ever feel like your friendships are changing as you grow closer to God? Are you struggling to keep certain relationships while staying true to your faith? Navigating friendships while on a spiritual journey can feel so challenging, especially when it seems like the people around you just don’t understand where you’re coming from. I…
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Prophetic Warning: Territorial spirits are not to be tempered with alone! This will take a cooperate team and can cause unnecessary warfare without a team of chosen leaders. I’m observing too many people think they should cast out a second heaven demon. Just because you watched a glorified YouTube video, does not mean you should follow suit. This i…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Have you ever felt like your emotions were leading your life and making your decisions for you? Maybe it’s that one thing your man said that sent you spiraling, or perhaps you've been holding so much in that one little thing just pushes you over the edge. Girl, you’re not alone! God created our emotions, and it's okay to feel them,…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Feeling stuck lately and unsure how to move forward? Are you tired of spinning your wheels, knowing there's more out there for you, but you just can’t seem to break free? Whether it's in your relationships, career, or spiritual walk, feeling stuck can be so frustrating! In today’s episode, I’m diving deep into 3 key principles to g…
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Unforgiveness is an ugly stronghold! It can cause so much inner turmoil to one's soul without true healing with our Lord. Many people, including Christians, say they "forgive" but deep down inside, have unhealthy emotions toward their offender! Without forgiveness; spiritual poison starts to slowly leaks into the soul, turning into many other forms…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Are you struggling to forgive someone who hurt you, but feel scared it means letting them back into your life? Do you find yourself holding onto past pain, feeling stuck in resentment, and unsure how to move forward? If you’ve been battling the weight of unforgiveness and want to experience true healing and peace, this episode is f…
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Ready to discover the inner depths of trauma? Uncloak from fearful strongholds? Go deeper into healing and deliverance without a showy stage production? Introducing Melia's brand-new audiobook- FEAR NOT; No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls! FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "Go…
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In today's tumultuous world, it's easy to lose sight of God's love for us. The palpable anger of the Lord reveals 70x7 of guilt, shame, and rebellion of mankind. God must take action for a generation that continually grieves Him! Discontent stems from a loving Father who desires nothing but the best for His children. Melia shares a personal testame…
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Hi beautiful! ♥️ Do you find yourself feeling like you're not good enough? Are you struggling with low self-confidence and self-worth, constantly comparing yourself to others? Do you wish you could walk in confidence like the women around you? If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you! Today, we're talking about the harmful cycle of comparis…
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Hi beautiful! What if I told you, you're the reason he's not committing to you? 👀 Have you been in a relationship for years and wonder why it's not progressing forward? Do you fall in love with these men that 'don't want anything serious right now' or are afraid to make the relationship official? Are you fed up with settling for these boys!? In tod…
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Facing challenges in discernment? Without the Holy Spirit guiding us to God's truth, no discernment is dispersed! Too many Christians are not testing the spirit (See 1 John 4:1) because they don't spend time with Jesus or study their Bible to know the difference between a spirit of truth (Holy Spirit) verses a spirit of deception (Satan). Nobody, i…
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Hi beautiful! Do you feel stuck with whatheck you should be doing to actually heal those emotional wounds? Are you ready to finally heal from heartbreak and embody the confident woman of God you want to be? Do you want to break free from the limiting beliefs and intrusive thoughts holding you back? Join me for a live clip into the Heartbreak to Hea…
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Hi beautiful! If you've ended things with your ex but still feel drawn to him, and you're trying to be strong enough not to go back... Or if you've found yourself caught in a cycle with him, but deep down you want to be free... Here are the five steps to finally break free from him emotionally AND spiritually! We're talking all things soul ties (fr…
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Christians who are following and in agreement with false prophets, fall under God's judgment! False prophets and those who seek their guidance will all be punished for their sins. (Ezekiel 14:4-10). False prophets and leaders are only after your money, selfish ambitions, high status, vain imaginations, and loads of followers ... Unfortunately, fals…
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Sis... we aren't picking up that phone, okay? If you feel this draw or longing to go back to your ex but you know he is absolutely NOT the one God has for you... Listen to today's bonus episode! You may be feeling strong emotions late at night - lonliness, fear of being alone forever, or just this desire to be loved (even if it's a toxic love). You…
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Hi beautiful! If you feel confused, lost, or hopeless when it comes to moving on from your toxic relationship, I want to share 10 psychological reasons why. I want to help you identify which you're being impacted by so you stop suffering in silence and use the authority you have in Jesus Christ to rebuke the enemy and heal those deep wounds. Whethe…
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Did you know that many people, including Christians, can function quite well in their dysfunction? Many times, people operating in unhealed trauma have no idea anything is wrong because it's their normal. But, it's not someone else's. Perhaps, yelling and screaming was an ordinary occurrence in your family? Or promoting promiscuous or hateful behav…
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Hi beautiful! Hate what you see in the mirror? Do you keep tearing yourself down with your words? Feel like you're so far from loving who you see in the mirror? You know you're made in the image of God but it's still not helping the way you feel about yourself. You wonder how you can be so mean to yourself but you just can't help it. Please don't g…
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Just because you're a Christian and in an equally yoked marriage, does not mean your life will be hunky dory. Although, God tells us to not team up with unbelievers, truth is, you're a target for Satan, now! "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). My husband and I chat about real struggles and how to "die to self…
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Hi beautiful! Have you been feeling weak when it comes to letting go of your ex? Are you struggling with moving on because you feel like you NEED him? Do you want to learn how to break free from a biblical perspective? In today's episode, I'm giving you the 8 reasons why you feel like you can't live without him so you can understand what's going on…
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Healing in not linear or what you think! Many people think they know what they need healing from, but don’t. For example, your focus is about your husband or wife, yet God might be wanting to heal a deeper problem within you, that's been buried for years. You are dating and can't seem to attract the right partner, but a traumatic event you experien…
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Hi beautiful! MANNNNN. Talk about faith being built. Trust being restored. Dreams being revived. All the things! Today's episode is a bit different than usual. I wanted to share a BONUS episode for this week to share how God has been moving in my life personally and what He revealed to me while I was serving at a student conference. I went there fe…
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Hi beautiful! Have you gotten to a place where you realize you're carrying some toxic patterns and red flags because of your past relationship experiences? Do you feel lost with what to do after you gain that self-awareness? Not sure how to set healthy boundaries for yourself or stop self sabotaging? Well sister, in this episode I share the five th…
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Many will never understand what a pure prophet, not compromised with evil, goes through on a daily basis! The high cost to follow God wholeheartedly coincides with severe demonic attacks, constant tears, Astro projection, witchcraft, and endless spiritual warfare battles. God says, "Many are called but only few are chosen" (Matthew 22:14). While th…
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Did you know our loved ones, family, and friends can be operating under witchcraft? Many times, the deceptive nature of evil, that's rooted in witchcraft, has a greater potential for curses to be placed on individuals without them even knowing it! Witchcraft is used by the enemy to attack our relationships by using manipulation, intimidation, and c…
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It's finally here... Melia's self-paced trauma program just for you! “Heal my Soul Wounds” is not your typical trauma recovery program. It's a powerful 7-step trauma purification process: Inner Healing & Deliverance "God's Way" for wounded souls. This metamorphic program is based on God’s Word, biblical principles, powerful prayer, godly counsel, h…
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Hi beautiful! Are you struggling to love yourself again after a hard breakup? Do you feel like you're not good enough? Have you been speaking down on yourself... low-key feeling like you hate the body you're in or the person you are? Listen sister, you are so loved and so worthy! I need you to join me for today's episode where I share the one most …
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Many times, a spirt of infirmity, is at the root of your pain. Truth is, many disregard the spiritual realm as a myth buster and only believe what their naked eye can see. Therefore, only the physical dimension is witnessed to many wounded souls. Can God heal you from chronic pain and suffering? God is God. You must come to realize the battles are …
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Hi beautiful! Are you stuck in a rut or standstill, unsure how to move in the direction God has for you? Do you wish so badly that you could finally heal and become this better version of yourself? Do you feel like you've lost yourself since your last relationship and don't know how to out of the funk you're in? Today is all about setting new inten…
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Judgment is coming! The Lord is crying out for His sons and daughters to get right with Him... God is sounding the alarm for broken covenants; an agreement with God, a promise to forgive our sins and restore fellowship with those who turn their heart towards Him. Jesus is the mediator of the new covenant. Yet, many Christians are not abiding and co…
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Hi beautiful! Do you feel super lonely when you watch all your friends around you start getting married and starting families? Are you questioning if being a wife and mom will ever be your reality? Having a hard time trusting God through this waiting period? Maybe you're even... feeling a bit hopeless? In this episode, I share three things you can …
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No matter if your single or married... You have a responsibility to heal your soul wounds if you desire to have thriving relationships upon your life. Unhealed trauma is an open door for the devil to cause havoc in your relationships and health. Let's not forget that unhealed trauma will also stunt your healing progression causing discord in every …
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When you think of Rahab, you most likely think of the prostitute who helped hide the Israelite spies from the enemy. (See Joshua 2). But that is not the Rahab I’m talking about … The Lord revealed a water spirit named Rahab; hovering over cities, countries, states, and nations, affecting people worldwide! Rahab is a prideful, quarrelsome, arrogant …
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Feeling stuck in the pain after a breakup? Wondering why it's so hard to move on, even though you know you deserve better? Tired of the spiraling thoughts that keep you relieving the pain and from feeling happy again? In this episode, we dive into the top 3 things you must NOT do if you want to truly heal and move forward. Whether you're feeling fr…
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Hi beautiful! Ever wonder how to heal from past trauma and prepare yourself for a healthy & godly relationship? Struggling to let go of the pain and fully trust again? Searching for ways to heal that align with your Christian faith? I share practical, biblical-based steps to overcome trauma and prepare your heart for a godly relationship. Whether y…
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Listen up .... God's Chosen Ones! Our Lord and Savior takes witchcraft very seriously. Point blank- it's forbidden. (See Deuteronomy 18:10-12). Friends, we can't be half in the world and half in Christianity and think the Lord is going to bless and protect us for being disobedient to His Commandments. Especially, His chosen ones who He has called t…
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Let's be honest... Healing trauma hurts! Nobody loves to have their weaknesses and strongholds exposed to the light for correction. Being convicted in your spirit is not fun, but the truth is what will free your soul from the bondage of the enemy! Remember: All Scripture is inspired by God for correction and to teach us His truth so we can realize …
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Hi beautiful! A little birdie told me you've been feeling weighed down by shame and regret lately... Have you been overwhelmed by regret and shame from your past? Do you constantly criticize yourself for past mistakes? Are you praying but feel like the things you did are too bad for God to forgive? Today is all about accepting forgiveness and how t…
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Truth be told, if you call yourself a Christian, you should NOT be messing around with the Enneagram! Yet, it's commonly being used worldwide in churches, Christian counseling services, business events, and Kingdom conferences. Even popular Christian book publishers are promoting this New Age tool. Be careful, my friends! The Enneagram is dangerous…
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Hi beautiful! Do you find yourself in a cycle of unhealthy relationships, desperately wanting to stop? Are you afraid of ending up in a relationship like your parents? Still unsure how to not let your past trauma affect your future relationships? You want to stop the negative relationship cycles so you don't pass it down to the next generation. The…
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Join me on my back patio for a punchy episode on the five ways the fear of getting hurt is blocking love from your life. I share how hardened hearts, emotional walls, and self-sabotage can keep us from experiencing true, God-centered love. How do I know? I've been there, sis! I share how to identify these signs, why they block love from your life, …
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