Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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(Rewind): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
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I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . . You go on a date with someone and hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, you're seeing each other all the time. You text them daily, make plans for the future, and every time their name pops up on your phone, you feel a surge of happiness and excitement. That very same exciteme…
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265: Esther Perel’s Advice On Modern Dating, Sexuality, And Communicating In Relationships
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In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. In this conversation, Matt and Esther talk about how to create desire …
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(Matt Monday): What To Do When They Aren’t Asking You Questions on a Date
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“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all. In today’s episode, I respond to a viral tiktok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone …
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(Rewind): Should You REALLY Call Them Before The First Date? Here’s My Answer…
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It’s strange how we often feel more comfortable with the idea of going on a date with a stranger than talking on the phone. But isn’t it a good idea? Shouldn’t we test how they are on the phone before we meet in person? In this clip, we answer a question from someone who feels that men get scared off when she suggests a phone call, and give some pr…
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264: Grief Expert Shares The Worst Thing to Do After Heartbreak w/ David Kessler
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What are some practical ways we can deal with the grief we'll face in our lives? How do we stay present and not get lost in the painful stories and traumas of the past? And how do we get over guilt and regret? I shared a clip from my talk with Grief Expert David Kessler earlier this week, and I wanted to share a part two because I know how powerful…
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(Matt Monday): Healing from Heartbreak And Grief w/ David Kessler
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Have you ever suffered a loss you’ve never really moved on from? It could be someone you loved. It could be a failure, or the loss of a life you thought you would have. It could be trauma that goes back to childhood. The good news is, you can heal. I had the enormous privilege of hosting world-renowned grief expert David Kessler at my Retreat in Fl…
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(Rewind): 13 Subtle Ways to Make Someone Want More With You
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In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serv…
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263: Protect Yourself In Dating With This Mindset
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Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life that make you feel burnt out, frustrated, and make you want to withdraw entirely. So if you want to spend your time in a happier, freer, more productive way that leaves you uplifted, this episode is for …
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(Matt Monday): Why Does Dating Feel So Hard In 2024??
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Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can try the least. And when you put in actual effort, it can feel like it even turns people off! Everyone seems to be looking for someone “rare and special,” but there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach th…
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(Rewind): If They Pull Away, Text This Response...
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What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com…
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262: "I Want A Serious Relationship, But They Want To 'See How Things Go'"
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How do you know is someone is ready for a relationship? What if they use phrases in their dating app like "If the right person came along, I'd be open to a relationship", or "I want to see how things go"? In this episode, Matt, Audrey and Stephen discuss how certain you need to be of someone's intentions in the early dating stages and how you shoul…
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261: How To Deeply Connect To The Hidden Power Of The Five Hearts w/ Kimberly Snyder
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Today, Matthew and Audrey sit down for an enlightening conversation with Kimberly Snyder, author of “The Hidden Power of The Five Hearts”. Kimberly is a New York Times Bestseller and Holistic Wellness Coach who offers practical intelligence on how to deeply connect to your hearts power, enabling you to feel more centered, think clearer, and find em…
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(Matt Monday): How To Respond To "Bare Minimum" Texting
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Ever found yourself sitting with your friends trying to "decode" what someone's texts mean, especially when they seem to be giving the bare minimum? And should you respond with the same aloof behavior? Today’s video will give you some simple techniques for clear communication, show you how to model the behavior you want to see, and give you the con…
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(Rewind): 3 Mistakes People Make When It Comes To Exclusivity in Dating
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It’s very easy to avoid having certain conversations in life. And one of the more dangerous forms of avoidance is assuming we’re exclusive when it’s unclear in early dating. So when should you have The Conversation? And what are some of the pitfalls that lead to people being “in limbo” and never really getting the commitment they want? In this epis…
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260: He Seemed Attracted...Then Pulled Away. Why?
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Ever felt like you had chemistry and were falling for someone, and then they seem to start texting less, stop scheduling dates, and seem to be fading out? What does this mean? And more importantly, should you have "the conversation" to see where you stand? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk to a caller who felt the guy she was seeing…
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(Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
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Ever been dating someone who suddenly goes cold when they go on a trip out of town? What happened? And how should you respond to this behavior? Today’s episode is all about what happens when we invest too soon, and how someone’s “radio silence” can trigger our insecurity. I even provide two text messages you can send: one for if they reach back out…
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(Rewind): Heal Your Broken Heart. Starting Now.
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When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma. You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness. But there are STILL choices. And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more…
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259: How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way
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When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". And in this reaction you may end up blaming yourself. Especially if you feel like there's a recurring pattern in the people you've chosen to date so far. So what is the role of our own responsibility when we date people who hurt us? And how do…
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(Matt Monday): Why They Commit to the NEXT Person
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“I’m always the person they date right before they find the person they marry . . .” Sound familiar? It can be shocking to find out that someone who always held out on commitment suddenly decides they want marriage and children . . . but only after you break up. At that point, you might be thinking: “Oh, so they were able to change . . . they just …
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Are you tired of people not putting in any effort? I get it, this can be extremely frustrating, especially if you consistently come across people like this. If you’re wondering what you could do to make someone try harder in early dating, I have a powerful concept to share with you that relates to maintaining attraction. Plus, you'll learn how to a…
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258: “He Was My First Real Love, And Broke My Heart…"
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The first time you experience heartbreak is a shattering experience. It's a new pain, it feels like your entire world falls apart, and you don't know if you'll ever feel better. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to shift your perspective on your heartbreak, the mindset that helps your recover, and how to stop seeing this person as you…
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(Matt Monday): Did You Lose "The One"? Here's What To Do Now.
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Do you have the heartbreaking feeling that you lost “The One”? Maybe you’re haunted by a mistake you made, or something you said, or just a feeling that you could have done something differently to save the relationship. Here’s the good news: There is a path out of this pain. In today’s episode, I’ll show you 5 ways you can recover after (what you …
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(Rewind): 3 Ways to Find Out If They Are Love Bombing You
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I’ve heard this story so many times before . . . You go on a date with a guy and instantly, you feel a strong connection. What was supposed to just be drinks turns into dinner, which turns into a 12-hour affair. When you do eventually part ways, you look down at your phone and find a message sitting in your inbox saying, “Can I see you tomorrow?” Y…
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257: Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)
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There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious behavior in relationships, how to become more aware of your triggers, and simple…
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(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
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Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?” The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yoursel…
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