Hosted by your favourite chunky heauxs Aza and Ole, who aim to save the world one chat at time. (Obviously, this world cannot be saved because we're too far gone. But it's fun to talk about how one would do it). Obsessed with the introspection required to become the best version of the modern, Black South African woman, Aza and Olerato chat it up and talk all things self awareness and social politics on their journey to seeking self actualisation.
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14. a life update (the mgowo edition): living alone, 'adult' break-ups & the scam of pursuing your passion
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We're back. And we're sorry we've been gone. But March was a lot, and this episode is all about that. We get personal and tell you all of our business. More specifically, we spill the tea on how hard living alone is, being broke in your 20s, trying to profit off of your hobbies and dissecting our recently finished relationships. Find us on the soci…
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13. private (read: white) schools are coon factories (ft. Lilitha Jeremiah @lilitha.j)
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TODAY WE HAVE OUR FIRST GUEST EVER ON THE PODCAST: Lilitha Jeremiah! We unpack coonery and how it has our people SHACKLED. We begin our discussion by recalling our high school experiences, and how trying to be white follows you for the rest of your black life.
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12. cheating shouldn't be a deal breaker.
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Today's topic is ... tricky. In the spirit of the month of love, we decided to dissect cheating: what cheating really means, whether or not it has levels and the reasons why it is really the most humiliating way to go out. Special shout out to @e.mpire.ants (222 on Soundcloud) for the beautiful beats!…
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11. why do we want to be here? what's the point of existing?
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After four months, we're back with season two! Things look and sound a little different, don't they? Today, we dive right into the meat of it and discuss what the point of existence is. We dissect the complexities of purpose, how the church may have brainwashed us, and the joys of life and suffering. Hope you enjoy hearing us spiral and contemplate…
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Here is just a sneak peak at what you can expect while you're over here. Happy listening, heauxs.
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10. spiralling | more sex, 'moral capitalism', and parenting (part 2)
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The official season one finale!! In this episode, Aza and Ole continue the conversation of sex and spiral their way to moral capitalism and parenting?? We want to thank every single one of our listeners for tuning in and supporting the beginning of our journey. Stay tuned for season two! Season 2 announcements will be made through our socials: Inst…
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10. a candid chat about sexual liberation (part 1)
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In this week's episode, Aza and Ole have a candid conversation about sex, self-expression, and whether or not the performance of sexual liberation in 2020 is a way of seeking outside validation.
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9. do black people want justice or revenge?
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In this episode, Aza and Ole discuss EVERYTHING chile. What starts out as a conversation about using violence as a means to achieve justice turns into a dissection of what justice means, our colonised ways of preserving history and why words shouldn't be as important as they are.
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8. the Kefiboo saga & whether or not influencing can really make you rich
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In this episode, Aza and Ole discuss and dissect the seizing of Edwin Sodi's assets, Kefilwe Mabote's Porsche and how the Twitter streets reacted to her reaction. They also delve deeper and chat about whether or not the reservations held towards influencing being a real job are justified.
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7. Blackness in South Africa | being a 'coconut' & other upsets
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Aza and Ole get deep with it, and dig through their childhood trauma with what their blackness means and has developed into as the focal point. A good balance between light and heavy, they discuss what being a 'coconut' is like, discuss the unrealistic linear ideas of blackness in South Africa and whether or not it is the parent's fault if the only…
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6. inheriting beef, ‘mixing’ friends and the issue of entitlement
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Aza and Ole have a candid conversation about friendship: whether inheriting beef is childish or not, the light politics of mixing friendship groups and friends dating your other friends. They also explore their own friendship, and come to newfound realisations about each other.
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5. let’s talk about SEX | soul ties, virginity & normalising manipulation
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Aza and Ole have a chat about sex and the flimsy politics intercourse carries. They cover a lot of ground, from exploring how much of a myth breaking a piece of muscle is, to the unsurity of consent. Tune in!
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4. toxic masculinity & why it's a problem
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Aza and Ole dive into their understanding of what toxic masculinity is, why it's a problem and their experience with it.
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3. fat girls & romance | insecurities, self-worth and being the secret
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Aza & Ole go into a discussion about their insecurities, self-worth and other challenges that they experience dating as chunkier girls.
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2. a candid chat about colourism (and dragging SAn men)
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Aza & Ole investigate why YOU are so obsessed with light-skin black people, and what it means for the advancement of us as a community.
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1. your problematic ‘types’/preferences & why love is political
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Aza & Ole take a deep dive into the types of people they like, the type of people they attract and the desirability politics that motivate these decisions.
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